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Liliana Hendel, Psychologist and TV Columnist, states that men must
be considered "guilty until proven innocent."
Ironically, Erin Pizzey, the founder of the first shelter for victims
of domestic violence speaks against the current system that treats the
defendant as guilty. She goes on to say that of the first 100 of the
women that she took in to her shelter 62 could be described as violent
as the partners that they had left.
history of governmental control, abuse of power and manipulation imposed
The Canadian Province of Ontario is the only province in the
country that does not have accountability for its CAS (Children's
The Ontario Ombudsman is the province's agency to
investigate cases, complaints, of potential corruption or
wrong-doing by other government agencies or its workers. The CAS is
exempt from scrutiny by the Ontario Ombudsman. For more information
on the "abuses" of the CAS, the corruption and abuse of
power by the CAS please visit the following websites:
CAS even threatened to take the child from the mother if she did
not take the father to family court for custody and child
support! (YouTube video) Baby
snatching by the Childrens Aid Society - Child Farming Factories:
An interview with a mother's experience with Ontario's
Children Aid Society. All justice-minded citizens of Canada can
be thankful for the contribution that this young woman in this
interview has made to the cause of justice in Canada. Only
through public exposure of the corrupt practices of many CAS
workers and agencies will the problems created by CAS workers
eventually be eliminated. Reference and thank you to Canada
court watch for this interview.
happy families are ripped apart for no good reason. Fathers
who hug their children are alleged to be abusive. Loving Fathers
are treated as second class Parents but CAS and the Courts
leaving them devastated without their children. A
Disturbing Look at Children's Aid Societies
Governments attempt to remove not only fathers from the lives of
children but parents too. Not only do fathers have to fight to be
fathers but parents also must fight against governments and this is
no better explained than by http://www.parentalrights.org,
an amazing site dedicated to the empowerment of parents to protect
children. Unlike government sponsored agencies such as CPS (Child
Protective Services) or CAS (Children's Aid Societies) Parental
Rights promotes a rejuvenation of the family with the intent to
"protect children by empowering parents".
Archbishop Cordileone, Chairman for the Subcommittee on the
Promotion and Defense of Marriage, was recently interviewed on
"EWTN News Nightly." When asked to expound upon his
emphasis of building up a healthy marriage culture, Archbishop
"Society should do what is necessary to favor the
situation of the child having the best possible advantage of being
connected to their mother and their father growing up. So we just
need to teach people how to look at the issue from the standpoint
of what is really best for the child, because it's not about the
adults ... the government isn't interested in people's love lives
... the reason marriage has the unique status it does in the law
is because there's a public interest. The public interest is the
children that come from the union of men and women."
Here unfolded, is a discussion of "building up a healthy
marriage culture" in a society where marriage is seen as an
'"adult centered culture" without respect for children.
Back when mothers were almost always granted custody, fathers were
treated as occasional parents who would not be expected to play a
significant role in their children's lives. However, as more and more
mothers enter the workforce full time and as more and more fathers
wish to have meaningful relationships with their children, the tide
has turned. Before most states adopted the preference of joint custody
in the 1980s, mothers often had complete control over their children's
lives. Parental Alienation Syndrome was noted in the 1980s, and in
1992, Columbia Professor Of Child Psychiatry, Dr. Richard Gardner
published the book The Parental Alienation Syndrome. Symptoms of PAS
were recognized in families who were going through a divorce. Often
the children hated one parent and even made allegations of abuse that
were suspicious or outright false. The children's feelings were in
response to one parent (often the mother) denigrating the other parent
(often the father) and negatively influencing the children's feelings.
In this way, children were often turned against their fathers.
Our group is dedicated to Father's Rights and Father's Concerns and
strives to find appropriate and lawful means for Fathers' to be closer
with and a full parent of their children's lives.
One in Three (1 in 3) Children Live Without Their
According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 24 million children in America
- one out of three children (33%) - now live in a home in which
the biological father is absent.
Forty percent of births today are to unmarried
According the the U.S.
Census Bureau, forty percent (40%) of births today are to
unmarried mothers, and these children may grow up in single parent
will analyze these statistics.
generally speaking, have children outside of a committed marriage,
40 percent of the time
these instances of birth, 33% of the time the mother will have no
'commitment' to the father such that they live in a home without
leaves a difference of 7%. Seven percent of the time the mother
will have some sort of 'commitment' to the father and they live
ask the question, 'what spurs these women to get pregnant without
any marriage commitment of a husband who is going to help her, support
her, and raise their children together?'
How does guaranteed
financial assistance from public-funded welfare systems play a role in
guaranteed financial assistance from exclusively father-funded support
payment systems play a role in this? (Of course, the words
"exclusively father-funded" should not be used here because
sometimes the courts don't want to look bad so they make the mother
Six Obstacles to Father Involvement - and How to Overcome Them
A psychologist offers six tips to help dads be the fathers they want to be.
Problem #1: Lack of realistic role models and expectations
Problem #2: Lack of paid leave and flextime
Problem #3: Economics change how fathers see themselves
Problem #4: Lack of community and support
Problem #5: Lack of custody after divorce
Problem #6: The armor and habits of manhood
Making smart, small choices
The father of modern psychology, William James, put it best: "If you want a
quality, act as if you already had it."
Likewise, fathers can get involved by getting their hands dirty. Even if the
commute is long or they're facing financial stress, small choices every day
can result in long-term gains. At the end of the day a father can throw the ball
with the kids. Take a walk. Put down the smartphone and really listen when a
child talks. Just 5 minutes a day equals hours over the course of a year.
Here's a simple solution to most of these obstacles: Remember that almost
everything about family life can be improved. If fathers deeply desire more time
with their children, they'll make the time. Fathers and mothers have the
chance to be different in their parenting each time they interact with a child.
In the end, fathering is what a man is doing right now. Not last week. Not next
year. Right now. Go father.